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People who like to be in control of things can have a hard time with intimacy. Intimacy is anarchic and mutual and definitionally incompatible with control. You seek to control things because you are afraid.

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People who like to be in control of things can have a hard time with intimacy. Intimacy is anarchic and mutual and definitionally incompatib...
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